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What Do We Do?


The news of another black man being killed by the police (George Floyd) is all over the headlines and people like me are understandably angry, hurt and just  frustrated. I have had to explain to my children the careless and insensitive actions of others and again talk about how they should interact when they are in the presence of a police officer, how they should walk in the neighborhood we live in, toys they can and cannot play with, clothing they can and cannot wear and the talking goes on and on and on. My son asks "Mommy, what can we do"? My response, "Son we are believers in Christ so we pray".

 

People who don't see through our scope of lens may ask why are we frustrated, what have you really gone through to make you mad. I cannot speak for everyone, however being an Afro-Latina, I often have been met with racist comments and actions. For example, I have been told, you don't look like you have Puerto Rican in you, are you sure you weren't adopted? I have been followed in stores, followed home by the police while driving because I don't look like I should live in the neighborhood I do. I have been called the N word, B word and many other racial epithets. I have been accused of stealing and having to prove I bought items. I have been lied on, looked over for promotions, ridiculed and belittled because of the color of my skin and natural hair. These are things that I will never be able to change, EVER. This in and of itself will cause anyone to be more than angry.

 

While I can admit that I have become angry over these things, I have not caused myself to sin. I have met harshness with love as best as I know how. Allowing God's word to penetrate my heart and constantly reminding myself that yes, Jesus may have flipped over some tables but he didn't hurt or offend anyone. Words can cut, kill and destroy so in an attempt to turn away wrath I have responded as compassionately as I know how, while doing my best to ensure my face, eyes and body language do the same. (I know my face hasn't been fully delivered)

 

As believers we are called to pray, however what else can we do? While we know prayer changes things, makes the unseen become seen and hearts changed, we also know that action can breed some of the same rewards. I talk to my oldest about the importance of voting, petitions and calling people in high places to ensure our voices are heard. There is so much that we can do as believers, citizens and humans. Let not your good be evil spoken of, be mindful of your response to hatred as the goal is not to breed more hatred, hurt and loss. Do not allow the frustration, anger and rage to grow into hatred, bitterness and unnecessary violence that leads to loss. The loss of you, your freedom, a loved one or innocent person. Fight this fight the right way.


Continue to pray for parents as they speak to their children, pray for our loved ones protesting and standing up for justice, pray for leaders as they do their best to coordinate protests, petitions and voting efforts. Your prayers can go and reach places and people that we may not ever have a chance to see. Sending Love, Peace, Prayers and Light to you all. 


 

Love Always

 

Just Syai


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